Dirty Talk: The Art of Talking Dirty In Bed

Whether you're naughty or nice, talking dirty is one of the best tricks to heating things up in the bedroom. Check out this guide to dirty talking and learn how to speak the language of lust with sexy confidence. What can dirty talk do for you? Talking dirty is part of fantasy sex play, and like other forms of sex play, engaging in some titillating talk in bed can turn you on, turn your partner on, and culminate in some much steamier sex. But that's not all. "Dirty talk has a very important bonus: It's a terrific way for you to ask for – and get – exactly what you want in bed," says Lynne Stanton, author of Dirty Talk: Speak the Language of Lust. Plus, you'll get the chance to discover brand new turn-ons for both you and your partner. "Once you start talking to each other, you might unearth hot spots you didn’t even know you had," Stanton adds. So whether it's verbal encouragement ("You're making me so hot" and "Yes, that feels so good!"), erotically charged instructions ("I love it when you stroke me this way") or role-playing dialogue ("Want a little fun, stranger?"), you stand to foster a stronger sexual connection with your partner and you'll also feel more sexually confident about yourself.